tomj wrote in post #16799318
"if they can't get it done in an hour, maybe an hour and a half, forget about it."
As I recall, meetings were an hour and a half, but they started on time so people were encouraged to get there as much as a half hour early to sign in, network, and be in their seats by the time the meeting started. It was frequently necessary to spend a little time afterwards going over referrals you gave or received with another member. Combined with travel time it was probably at least 2-1/2 hours for me, a big chunk right out of the middle of my day. And at each meeting you stand up and give a 30 second "commercial", and a 12 minute one every several weeks, which requires some prep time (mainly the 12 minute one.) Additionally, we were expected to meet "one-on-one" privately at some time with each member of the chapter, although I think I was one of the few who actually tried to do this.
Just from my experience and observations, BNI wasn't for me, or most of the people I know who tried it. But, some people have been very successful with it. If you do give it a shot, you really should be prepared to give it as much time and effort as it requires.
I was in a BNI chapter for five years, not as a photographer though, but as a commercial contractor. I left almost two years ago due to family issues, and what Tom said is pretty accurate. Our meetings started at 7:00am and were done at 8:30am. Our group had about 35 members and several were in the group over 10 years. The last few years the group has thinned out, mostly due to the economy. Several members changed jobs or even changed careers and left, some relocated to new areas, and some just closed up their businesses and went to work for a company.
My advice is to find a chapter that has members that will compliment your craft and go to a couple of their meetings. You are allowed to attend two meetings for any chapter you are interested in before making any kind of commitment. I was fortunate that the chapter I belonged to had members that complimented my work as a contractor, such as commercial and residential real estate agents, an architect, insurance agent, etc.
As a photographer, you would like to be in a group with people that are complimentary to your profession and would be good referral sources such as wedding planners, caterers, musicians or DJ's, etc. Not to say that the other members won't be good referral sources, believe it or not my best referral source in our group was our chiropractor, I think it was because she interacts with so many different people on a daily basis. One nice thing about BNI is that they only allow ONE of each business classification in a chapter, meaning you would be the only photographer in that chapter.
We had a photographer in our group and he did get several referrals, but he left due to his wife being transferred to another state. As was said before, you will get out of it what you put into it. Only you can decide if it is beneficial or not. As with anything else, if you don't like it, don't go back. I can say with all honesty that BNI was my most cost-effective form of advertising after trying the Yellow Pages, placements, direct mails, etc. Even though I have been out of BNI for almost two years, I am still friends with several members and still do work for them, still give referrals to them, and still get referrals from them, and still use them for many of my personal and business needs.