Brenda.
OR is almost correct.
The only way to correctly apply ratios to lighting schemes is to first understand that light from multiple sources striking the same surface is additive.
A) fill light is on axis and reads F8 at subject. Main light is 45* off axis and is striking one side of face and reads F8 at the subject. With both lights on and meter at subject facing camera the reading will be F11, because both F8 lights are striking the highlight side of the face. And F8 plus F8 is F11. Expressing that as a ratio is 2:1
B) One light is 90* off lens axis striking the subject from camera left. The second light is 90* off lens axis striking the subject from camera right. Both lights read F8 at the subject with the meter dome pointed at the light. Meter reading from subject with meter aimed at the camera may era a bit less than F8 to a bit more than F8 depending on where in the light cone the meter is placed. When describing this lighting I tend on to refer to a ratio because the lights are each lighting a unique portion of the subject. The only way to make one side of the face brighter is to increase the light. Usually by increasing power.
Generally, ratio, is the may to express the relationship of shadow to highlight on a subject. So, if you tell me you want to have a 1:3 ratio for men and to shoot at F11, I know I need to set the main to about F9 or 10 and the on axis fill to F 5.6. That will get me close. Then the main or fill can be quickly adjusted to get the exact look and exposure.
How did I get to that? F11 is two stops brighter than F5.6 so the absolute ratio is 3:1. But since you said you wanted to shoot at F11, I really need to have the main a little under that aperture, about a 1/3 stop is a good starting point. Then put the fill in at F5.6, which I know is a bit hot. Then the meter reading for the combined lighting scheme will tell me wether I need to decrease the fill or increase the main to get to exactly F11.