i'd like to have something as close to Lightroom as possible - being able to use a brush to selectively paint over portions which i want the effect to show through/control the flow of the effect.
i understand Nik has uPoint, but the control and speed doesn't come close to LR at all. is there any other LR equivalent for HDR? what i currently do is to output multiple HDR images and then blend them manually in PS CC, which is extremely time consuming. 

