When using Phase detect AF and an optical viewfinder you are working with an AF sensor that is mounted in the bottom of the camera. It get the light it works with by using a semi silvered section of the main reflex mirror and then a sub mirror to reflect the light to the bottom of the camera. The sub mirror only steals light from the viewfinder in the center of the frame, so is generally not noticed,the corners are generally a bit darker anyway so it evens out overall. For the OP's request to work you would have to be able to have an AF sub mirror that covered the whole of the viewfinder so would need to be the size of the main mirror. This would double the depth of the mirror box, and also double the lens registration (already just about the largest of any 35mm format SLR camera). Mind you it would need this extra depth to mount the control and and drive systems that would be needed to move the physical AF sensor to the spot that it needs to be located at. Even once you have done this you have the issue of showing the actual location of the AF sensor in the viewfinder. I guess you could now solve that by using a Transmissive LCD system as is used in the 5DIII/7D and I think 1Dx and 6D have them too, so now becoming mainstream at least.
The Eye Control Function referred to above is great if you can use it, I have never tried one, but it seems like Marmite it works for you and you love it, or it is the spawn of Satan. Even so it is only really of use for switching between fixed AF points. If if a truly moveable AF point were possible, I do not think that ECF is likely to be accurate enough to really control it effectively.
So now we are back to moving between fixed AF points. If Canoon won't reintroduce ECF, or ECF won't work for you you need an alternative. Canon had a really good system for controlling the active AF point. The little joystick, although it was actually very like using a track ball would be as it was a very short joystick. This was a standard part of the Prosumer level cameras for many years. It was available on all of the xxD models up to the 50D and is still on the 5/7D bodies. They even added an extra one to the pro 1 series cameras for use in vertical mode it was that useful (They've even added one to the battery grip for the latest 5/7D's).
Alan