I think I'm making my meter do something it can't. So if I'm trying to grt a proper exposure of the sky behind the subject im able to point the some towards a bright highlighted area of the sky and grt an incident racing and grt a somewhat proper exposure the. Get a flash reading off of subject. I guess I only though I needed a spot attachment to do that?
You didn't state before that you wanted a proper exposure of the sky. That would not be done with an incident meter reading.
Before I wrote my last post, I had assumed you wanted "a good ambient reading" which is what you had written. That means a reading for an exposure of the surrounding things which are illuminated by ambient light.
It might be a good idea for you to read up on the use of a handheld light meter and how it is typically used in the various modes (reflected vs ambient, wide area vs spot readings, flash, etc.).