Wolfeye wrote in post #17179059
The world is full of people who want to control how others' think and or act. Most of it hides behind the guise of organized religion, but some of it is as simple, and as simple-minded, as a mom who wants a stranger to
never masturbate to pictures of her kids.
This odd phrase "masturbate to"--I never encountered it until I got on the Web and saw men, cloaked by Web anonymity, talking about their manly secrets. The phrase always reminds me of the direction that accompanies lyrics of parody songs: "Sung to the tune of _____ ."
So the presumed offense against a photographed child isn't the snapping of a picture, it's the way the picture might be used later, when the child isn't even there?
electricme wrote in post #17179141
Permission is needed for minor children period.
Not legally, it isn't, not if the child is in public, unless a commercial use will follow. A good reason not to get permission is that getting it would destroy the subject's spontaneity, which may be exactly what you want in photos taken in public. The child will pose.
this not a matter of popular opinion
It also not a matter of your personal opinion.
electricme wrote in post #17179149
Im sorry but the fact that you dont see anything wrong with this and that you knew to do it quickly should make you evaluate you conscience. Regardless of your intent.
Me conscience is just fine. I didn't hurt anyone. The little boy had been looking around in various directions. He appeared so alert; it was part of his charm. I got an image quickly enough that I don't think he noticed the camera. Having him look at the camera would have ruined the shot.