Yea, I prefer to see what people are saying about the lens, preferably folks who also have lenses to compare - which is why I also like that people post their gear.
I've seen a bunch of folks say how 'tack sharp' the 24-105 is. Well, you look at what lenses they are comparing it to and what photos they are taking with it and draw your own conclusions.
If you look at the 55-250 (I've never used it), it has a good reputation from both beginners and people with experience of much more expensive lenses. Doesn't mean it is going to have the IQ of a $3000+ lens, but you can bet that whatever any review site says about it, it is going to be good value for money.
If you then buy the lens and it is really not sharp compared to say some other 'decent' lenses, then perhaps you look for another copy. Folks who just way 'well it's not as sharp as I expected based on the review sites', I ignore. IMO it's almost impossible to make that kind of comparison unless you have exactly the same setup as the review site. Much easier to compare with a lens you own under controlled conditions.
For instance, when I bought my 135L, I tested it at f4 and f5.6 against my 70-200 f4 IS expecting it to be sharper than that. Then I compare f4 with f2.8 and f2 and see a gradual softening (which I expect) and not sudden jumps in IQ. If the corners are all equally sharp (or soft) wide open, then it passes and I call it good.
BTW, I do regularly make 20"- 30" prints of my shots, so I can tell the difference between say a 18-55 and a 16-35 f4L. I would say on even an 8x10 print most modern cameras and lenses are good enough that with a bit of extra processing/sharpening it could be hard to tell the difference. Of course there are many other aspects to a lens than just sharpness anyway.