The problem you are getting is down to using a machine that is only barley capable of running LR, which is also my situation. When LR imports images it it has to generate preview JPEG's for each one. When/if you then view the image it 100% it has to then generate a 100% sized preview first. All of this preview generation is what acts to slow down LR. If I am importing only a few images from a card these days, then I will do it using LR direct from the card. More than about 50 or so images I will usually download the images from the card, to the correct location on the computer's drives, using the computer's own file management system, for windows that's Windows Explorer. As all you are doing is moving files this can be quite quick, even using USB2.
Once I have the images on the disk, then I import to LR, using the ADD option. This means that LR is not also trying to write the preview files to the HDD, while also updating the LR Catalogue database with information about the images, and writing the preview files to disk. Unfortunately it is impossible to do parallel writes to the same disk, so there is zero way to do them faster. Also LR tends to write an awful lot of small writes to the disk, each of which will require the disk to do a seek for the correct location. Rather than writing one large lump to the disk.
Unless the disk is severely fragmented, using the OS system to copy the files can mean that the computer will try to drop all of the image files sequentially on the disk, so that it can effectively write them as one big data chunk, which is much more efficient, radically reducing the overall time taken to transfer the files.
Using the above system I can download and import around 3000 CR2's from my 50D (around an average of 21 MB per image) in about a couple of hours. I have one 32Gb card, and three 8 GB cards that I use. If I import direct from the card, then it will take LR longer than two hours to process one of the 8 GB cards. In this situation I have LR add basic keywords about the main event that has been photographed, as well as using a processing preset, so that I can import the images with a non standard set of default settings.
Alan