Let me be clear then: when someone sees a function that they don't use themselves, and can't think of a use for it, that does not mean that others can't find a use for it. All it means is that that person can't, period. If that person then wants to tell the users that they are using 'kindergarten mode, for babies' then I may tell him that his use of the LCD -chimping!, or light meter -there's the sunny 16 'rule' that works, etc. is for rank amateurs who need those crutches.
To put it even more clearly, there are circumstances that I need the autofocus and licht metering under one button. Couldn't get the photograph I want otherwise. It all depends on your photography and your command of your camera, not your age or education level.
If you don't intend to be judgmental, don't be. Quite simple. If you are, don't be surprised if someone calls you out on it.
You're absolutely right. I was just trying to be funny when I said "kindergarten mode" but didn't mean to deliberately bash anyone who doesn't use BBF. I know there are many pro photographers who don't use BBF, and they're far better than I am.
Whenever I get a new camera, I immediately turn off the annoying focus beep, and disable focus on the shutter button. Those are the default settings right out of the box (which is kinda why I said "kindergarten mode"). It's not a matter of "this is better than that" but a matter of what works best for each individual.
I probably should have worded things differently.
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can help a lot.
