The more I learn the more I realize how much I have to learn. Sigh.
I have a Q that is basic but could use some opinions on...
When shooting a photo do you choose Aperture or Shutter Speed? I shoot mainly candid portraits and I have the Rebel XT and usually shoot with my f2.8 18-50mm (although I just got the f2.8 70-200mm).
I sometimes think - I want this to be a high shutter speed shot to freeze the action (especially of kids) - but then it sets the aperture so high that I lose the detail. Other times I think - I want everything in focus so I'll set the aperture but then the shutter speed is so slow I lose it again. I do play around with ISO but I have it in my head I should keep it as low as possible for best print results. I try manual mode but then I spend so long adjusting the moment is gone.
I do have a flash - shoudl I be using that more? That could help freeze the moment I guess. I just love natural light. If I set teh flash in ETTL will it set the shutter speed taking into consideration the flash?
Sorry for teh basic Q's but I just feel I'm spending way too long determining Aperture, shutter speed, ISO - any words of advice from the wise? (If this is discussed elsewhere I apologize - I'm new to forums and still figuring it out!)

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