I shoot events & weddings (occasionally do portraits).
I use crop. For most events and outdoor ceremonies (or ceremonies in large churches) I have a 70-200 on my primary and the sigma 18-35 on my secondary. The 70-200 is used 90% of the time here.
When we move inside or it is a smaller event - The Sigma 18-35 goes on the primary and the 50 on the secondary. The 18-35 is used for 99% of the shots here. I use the 50 when I know I have room for it. For me, a zoom is a MUST for an event or reception. I can't zoom with my feet when there are chairs, tables, pillars, decor, and people everywhere.
I use the Sigma 18-35 mostly in the 24-35 range. That's on crop; so closer to "38.4-56" for you. If it were me, I would HAVE to use the 24-70 if I were on FF like you. I hate switching cameras a lot. Moments that last microseconds don't wait for you to switch cameras. You may be able to get by with the 35 + 50 or another combo, but you will definitely miss moments.
If you are worried that you will miss your bokeh on the faster primes, remember it's not about you. The B&G would rather you capture a moment using a zoom with less impressive (yet still attractive) bokeh than to capture the moment after the moment with a prime and awesome bokeh.
I guess that is MY argument for using zooms at a wedding or event. Posed shots at an event, use whatever.
This, as usual, is just MY personal opinion and preference. 