Jarvis, could not agree more with all your statements about some more info to better help. But...... and here is the big but, my first advice would be try to never do family or friends, especially if just starting out. Now you can preface it with the client just starting out and don't expect much, but a lot of times, they do expect it and it just creates issues. My son apprenticed with one of the best photographers on the East coast for 6 months and that was one of the first things he told him about family and friends. Yes you can do them if you have too but you better know your stuff.
I just fear with the OP, if not having done a wedding before, might be overwhelmed with the whole process. Worrying about focus issues is one of 30 things he is going to have to have a very good handle on over the course of the day. We can give him all the advice he desires, but kind of like I can explain to you how to drive a car the first time before getting behind the wheel. But we all know what happens the first time behind the wheel, we make a bunch of mistakes in the school parking lot but who cares. You are learning. A wedding is taking the driving test, and without practice, could become an issue.
I do wish the OP the best and thus the suggestion of trying to hook up with an established wedding photographer to get some pointers if he has the time.
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