Hey everyone, I'll preface this post by saying I'm a complete flash noob. My only flash experience is with a 430EX that I bought 10 years ago and have only ever used in the camera hotshoe, and I only used it when absolutely necessary (ie. family portraits, indoors, when there isn't enough natural light). Everything I talk about below is based on all the research I have done in the last 2 weeks and based on what other members have said they are using.
I'm looking to get an OCF HHS setup because of all of the great pictures in this thread: https://photography-on-the.net …/showthread.php?t=1427264 (examples: https://photography-on-the.net …p?p=17541296&i=i148069440, https://photography-on-the.net …hp?p=17551533&i=i18318135, https://photography-on-the.net …p?p=17768930&i=i104140090, https://photography-on-the.net …p?p=17820999&i=i151470197).
So I'm trying to figure out the best setup for my specific uses. I have 2 kids, with another due in 2 weeks. I am not a professional photographer, I have all of this equipment to shoot my family and take pictures of friends and their kids.
My ideal use case: Taking pictures of my kids in an open field, at golden hour (morning or evening), being able to capture wide open (1.4-2.8), and not have to worry about the background getting washed out (ideal shots like sample images I linked above). I'd also love to use it for our Christmas pictures and other holidays and family gatherings. 90% of the time, I'll be using the flash with bright sun that I need to overpower.
Equipment I'm considering: (http://i.imgur.com/V2Yy0ve.png
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Flash: Either Rovelight 600B, or the new XPLOR 600/Cheetahstand CL-600X
Trigger: Either the new Flashpoint R2, or Godox X1-C
Softbox: Paul C Bluff 47" Octabox & Grid
Stand: Manfrotto 420B ($192, not sure if this is overkill for my uses, would love to save money on this if possible - http://www.bhphotovideo.com …KCAy5u2-MsCFZWFaQoddhQPoA
).
The above equipment puts me right around $1000 or less depending on whether the rovelight is on sale.
I initially had my heart set on the Rovelight, but then I started reading about the CL-600X and how it seems like an improved rovelight, but I'm not sure I can justify the cost increase over the RL600B.
Also, I get consistently confused when reading about TTL. I'm not sure if I really need it. I'd love to buy non-TTL flashes, since they cost significantly less. I'm open to any and all ideas/suggestions and appreciate any input. 
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