Silver-Halide wrote in post #17981363
a friend from church (ie, someone I already know)
Who is this friend? Is it really a friend, or just an acquaintance who might be offended if you used the word acquaintance instead of friend?
What does this friend do? Would they give you a 50%-80% discount off their work if you hired them to do, well, whatever it is they do? Landscaping, tax accounting, whatever? If they're a caterer,, will they cater your next party for less than their cost for food and drinks? If they're an auto mechanic, will they do your next set of brakes for $250 instead of the usual shop rate of $1200?
mikeinctown wrote in post #17984304
Lets get real here. This is not a photo shoot of the priests and nuns at the church. This is just someone who you happen to know through the church. Do they go to the store and expect a discount because they go to church? Do they pay 20% less than everyone else for a new car because they go to church? No, so why should you offer a huge discount for your services simply because you know these people from church? Has the church, and in particular, these people ever paid your bills for you?
On the dot.
My "friends and family" rate has a very specific set of criteria, and acquaintances from work or church usually don't meet those criteria.