I admire the imaginative staging and the gentle lighting in both, except that in #1 the angle of the planks makes the whole scene look tilted. We're looking down at a table or a floor, but it doesn't seem level.
A gender-neutral effect doesn't bother me. In fact, I prefer it to dressing a girl in a cloud of pink fluff and lace and ribbons or putting a boy in a miniature blue suit against a background of sailboat wallpaper. Why start the stereotyping so early? There'll be quite enough of it later.
In #1, the face could be in sharper focus. A slight softness on any other body parts is less important.