chauncey wrote in post #18146310
The mother abstained her duties year ago. Daughter is one of six, adopted, cognitively impaired children.
My own skills has taught me mediocrity when I see it.
I guess most of us read the 'we' as implying that you are married and the we referred to you and a spouse. It's unusual for a single parent to adopt six children, but I guess that is neither here nor there.
What's the point of this thread again? You originally asked about letting clients view RAW images, which is kind of strange and specific since RAW images are not convenient to share (many clients would have no RAW viewer at home) and having them sit with you and scroll through LR or something seems like an unusual approach.
Because really this thread feels like you are very proud of your boorish behavior in showing up the 'inferior' photographer (that you hired for some reason). That's just kind of how this reads to me. Personally I would have kept such an embarrassing outburst to myself, but clearly we have differing views on public conduct.
And to elaborate, the reason I say that is because I think you know how this works. The vast majority of photographers will shoot, cull, select and prep shots while trusting their own judgement above the clients. Then they show the client 'proofs' so that final selections for printing (or whatever) can be made by the client. If you view the final product from the photographer and realize that their idea of what is technically acceptable in a final image is much worse than yours, the most common reason is that you didn't perform your due diligence in checking references and viewing the photographer's portfolio of work.
On the other hand, if the final work is much worse than the portfolio you did screen, then you are certainly due a refund or a re-shoot. And discussing this calmly but firmly is usually the best way to get what you want.