Wow thank you everyone for the replies! I still have not made a decision, But I really appreciate everyone's opinions and view points. From reading it all here is what I gathered:
There is something to be said for already having the lenses for a camera (Eos M5 or Sony with adapter)
Dynamic range (lol)
Fujifilm surprises a lot of people, I actually have a couple friends who locally shoot with the xt10 and love it.
and finally pick what is best for you. While there wasnt a lot of coversation on full frame vs apsc it was more apsc vs micro 4/3
One of the things I want this camera to do is be more simple, I really appreciate the raw essence of photography and what it does with people. We capture emotion in a lot of cases and not just light. With what I want with my family is just that, capturing the emotion in the little moments. That said I've read and heard that fujifilm is the "peoples" camera. meaning fuji has a better understanding and designs their cameras with people and human interaction in mind. more so that sony or even canon.
now dont get me wrong, I love my canon, the signature canon color sets and the solid reliability that I have been so privy to, but i'm not afraid to try something new, and handling canon's attempt at a mirrorless makes me want to do so.
so for pure curiosity, fujifilm has captured my attention. They have such a simplistic approach and a "film" feel that I'm really curious to try. But with the release of the A6500, I think that would be an awesome travel companion what for pure capability and the sony video advantage.
But I have a go pro, and i dont need a video camera. So perhaps the fuji might be the way to go. I think either way be it the A7ii, XT series or A6XXX series, they all are great cameras that i'll be happy with. And I am of the mindset that I'd rather have lens for this camera than an adapter to use canon ones, which makes fuji more enticing too, they have some decent glass.