If you are wanting to produce graphs to show the distribution of various camera settings across a set of images then you are going to need to do a bit of DIY to get exactly what you want. it's quite simple really, you need to have a batch file that will run EXIF Tool on all of your image files, and for each one extract all of the fields that you will be interested in. It will then need to append the data to a text file, with each images data on a new line. Ideally you also want to ensure that each item of data on each line is separated by a comma, and that any empty fields are included in this. You could use spaces to separate fields, but only if you know there won't be any spaces in the actual data, and also that all fields will contain valid data.
Once you have generated the text file the next step would be to load it into a spreadsheet program, which will then allow you to conditionally count the numbers of different variables in the various fields. This may require converting some of the values in fields from the text they are imported in as to actual numerical values. Most spread sheets will do this during the import process though, as long as they see just numbers in a field. Once you have counted the variables then you just have it build you distribution graphs. Yes it is a lot of work.
The problem is that it is only a very tiny minority of photographers that would be interested in something like this, so there is not much demand driving development of software. If the above is too difficult/daunting then you could just load up LR and it will quickly give you counts of the number of photos in the catalogue that meet whatever requirement you are looking for. LR building previews does take time, but you can still search the whole catalogue while it is doing so, and it will also only generate the previews when you look at the images themselves in the catalogue. The thing is that added to the small number of potential users for what you want is the fact that many of those are using LR anyway, If you need graphs and use LR then again it is often very easy to manually copy the data you need across to a spreadsheet. The full range of f stop values that would need copying across if you went from f/1 to f/22 in third stop increments is only 30. It's a bit harder for shutter speeds, for Canon DSLR's there are either 18 or 19 stops of shutter speed available, since some go to 1/4000s and some 1/8000s, although the majority of shots by most photographers are likely to fall well within a ten stop range. ISO is also pretty much a ten stop range too, since that gets you from ISO 100 to 51200, and a ten stop range at third stop increments is 30 entries. The real killer for manually transposing from LR is focal length, especially if you have a long telephoto zoom. Checking my use of 150-600mm lenses, both the Tamron I rented, and the Sigma C that I own shows that combined I have taken 6282 images that have made it into LR, and in the process used a total of 65 discreet focal lengths. If I look at all of the lenses that are included, where the focal length is known, then I have a total of 150 different FLs recorded in EXIF from 10mm out to 600mm. It took me about ten times longer just to write the numbers down in this post than it did to look them up in LR.
So because of all of this I really don't think you are easily going to find a simple canned solution to your needs.
Alan