For wedding ceremonies, I use two (FF) bodies with 70-200 on one and 24-105 on the other. About half-way through the reception, I switch from the long lens to a 17-40 (still with the 24-105).
My 70-200 is the 2.8 version. And yeah, I do like having that larger aperture. And yeah, low light is one reason. But the DOF control and being able to separate the subject(s) from the background just a bit more is what I prefer.
For the other lens (24-105), the "standard" is supposed to be 24-70/2.8. I'm shooting with a lens that is one stop slower (f/4), and is not as sharp. Regarding the slower stop, it's (only) one stop difference. Have I hit situations where that one stop would make the difference? Well, yeah. But sensor noise on the 5D3 has been pretty good, and noise reduction in post-processing is also pretty good. Plus, I still recall when trying to do this with film and films were incredibly slow compared to what you get with digital ISO's these days.
What I really enjoy is having a bit of focal length overlap between the two bodies/lenses. When things are moving quickly (like in a wedding), having that extra bit of reach is nice. It only takes a few seconds to switch from one body to another, but if I don't have to switch bodies I can remain in the element and even more subtle.
Back to the longer lens... Obviously, I've already "compromised" on my standard range zoom with f/4. Why not go with f/4 on the long zoom. It comes back to that separation and DOF control.
Finally, my wide angle that I use during the candids is the 17-40. Again, it's another f/4 lens. Why not the 16-35? I've had the 17-40 longer than the 16-35 has been out. If I were starting now, would I consider the 16-35 over the 17-40? Yes. Which aperture, f/2.8 or f/4? Honestly, I'd have to go back to the reviews and check again. There are sharpness differences between the Mk I and Mk II versions. But in any case, having IS on the 16-35 is the bigger reason to consider it over the 17-40 (no IS).
In the meantime, I more enjoy having the wide-angle zoom (17-40) and being able to use it than spending time worrying about the lens that I don't have (16-35). There will (maybe?) be a time for that in the future.
So, there it is. Three zooms. More overlap in the focal lengths than the "standard" trifecta and a stop slower, but it still works and I actually prefer it.
Oh yeah, one more thing. I use flash a lot. I can't in every situation, and rarely use it during the actual ceremony, but I've really taken the time to learn flash (and multiple flashes). The f/2.8 vs. f/4 is less of an issue.