Look on the bright side, my first SLR, a Praktica Nova had a maximum shutter speed of 1/500! When I got my ME Super in 1980 (a christmas present for doing well in my school exams that year) I was blown away to have one of the few cameras that had 1/2000 as the fastest speed. Many other SLR's were still only at 1/1000.
Even then though a majority of my exposures will have been at under 1/500, so not really putting the Praktica at a disadvantage shutter speed wise. Still I was glad to have the higher speeds available for those times when they were required. Would the difference between 1/4000 and 1/8000 be a deal breaker in buying a new camera? Probably not, but it would be on the list of things to want.
It's like a lot of things, having a PC socket on a camera is also important to me, since I often need to use strobes in situations where RF triggers are just unreliable due to interference. Also I want CF over SD cards, I have had issues with killing SD cards by just touching them in the past. For me those two features are way above the max shutter speed in importance. Of course to get those on a camera usually means getting a 1/8000 shutter too, so I have it available should I need it in extreme circumstances.
What I would really like to see in a modern DSLR is a true base ISO of 50 or even better 25. I would happily lose a stop or two off the top of current sensors in order to get that. If the physics prevents that, then fine I'll keep taking more at the top, even though I wouldn't use it nearly as much as I might use a true ISO 50 or 25.
Others will be shooting different subjects, and will have other requirements that are more or less important to them.
Alan