southwestform wrote in post #18532789
1. For doing what I am trying to accomplish, is the decision to go with 1/3 or 2/3 of a stop brighter then mid tone for skin tone just a subjective choice, or is there anything else I need to be considering?
Unless you're measuring each subject's skin and comparing it to some known value -- like middle gray -- you're just guessing. You'll probably be within roughly half a stop of correct, but it'll just be a roll of the dice.
I prefer an incident meter for critical applications because it eliminates the reflectivity of the measured surface as a factor.
Failing that, I'd suggest measuring a place on your own skin, like your palm or back of hand, under controlled lighting and compare it to neutral gray in the same light. Then wherever you go, you've got a known value to measure. So if your hand measures 1 stop brighter than middle gray under controlled light during your test, it should also be pretty close to that value in the field.
southwestform wrote in post #18532789
2. How important is it to spot meter skin tones as I described but also spot meter for shadows on the subject?
It's not important at all unless you know what to do with the shadow measurement and are actually willing and able to make changes to take that reading into account. In digital imagining, particularly for portraits, I find highlight control is usually more critical than shadow control. I can usually get by with some loss of detail in shadows, but blown out highlights to me are a much more serious problem.
If you're talking about measuring to determine lighting ratios, it's pretty easy to do that by eye and that's one of the big advantages of shooting digital -- instant feedback.
Good luck.