I'll jump in too, same has happened to me.
Use Adobe Lightroom Classic with an Eizo monitor, calibrated monthly.
After editing and exporting into sRGB (as most of it's website related), I started to notice the changes when looking at the images after saving them.
They came out overly saturated red and totally not what was edited on LR.
I ran myself bonkers trying to find out why, the only thing I can put it to is the windows (if you're on windows) is their picture viewer.
I saved the images to a USB and opened them on my Surface Pro and they looked fine-not sure why or how...
I have also tried to save them as a TIFF file, opening these on my computer was also a problem, flat, grey and colourless, again not how I edited them.
I would put it down to the picture viewer possibly. If you can see what they look like on another computer then try that.
As for saving file to web or just viewing, sRGB would be best.
Printing then go for aRGB.
Hopefully someone can answer the question as to why, I'm still not 100% sure.
All the best,
S