The custom WB picker does not require a white point: it just requires a neutral shade of grey, anywhere between 0% (white) to 100% (black), and it corrects the image accordingly by shifting the color curves.
My workflow is simple: I have a cheap Kodak Grey card (18%) that I used to use to set-up exposure in the old non-digital world. I've changed its use in the following: if you have the time, take a shot of this grey card as your first image in the series with the same lighting.
With the Twain Driver (or Zoom Browser), this grey image will appear first.. Select it with the other images you want to convert, and apply the custom WB to it.
I have cheap tungstene lights that are not white calibrated, and a couple of building projectors. I use this technique to have a quick color correction after the fact... no need to use gels to correct the light, at least as long as you don't mix different light colors.
nadim