Thanks for all the nice comments...'tis appreciated....
As far as West Point being off-limits, I guess the Point is either very inconsistent, or I'm very, very lucky...
I've been on campus a couple of times this year without incident or confiscation of my gear.
I will admit that I have another friend that was a contractor there, but there were never any "strings pulled" or any special arrangements made.
When approached by the MPs, I would state where I was going (hospital, cadet chapel, et al) and I was allowed to pass.
It could also be the gate you went it? I'm going to venture a guess and say you went in through Thayer Gate? You might want to try Stoney Lonesome or Washington gate.
Also, visiting on game day is pretty accessible. You might have to walk A LOT (uphill for a good part especially if you park near Shea Stadium), but you won't be bothered.
I'd also be curious as to when the last time you tried to visit, and the year of your cousin's graduation. They do seem to be a bit more flexible the past 2 years or so.
Trust me, I've been in your shoes....
I used to tail-gate at the Point for the home football opener for about 5 years; pre- and post-9/11. Post-9/11, I had numerous M-16's pointed in my face as well as pat-downs and full vehicle searches.
This happened to *everyone*; I wasn't "profiled" or anything like that....
Bleh...
Best,
Tom D