Telextenders will reduce DOF because the focal length magnification taking place, and even with the aperture size reduction (in proportion to the focal length) causing increase in DOF, there still is a net loss of DOF.
Extension tubes only have an indirect effect on DOF, simply because of the closer focusing distance of the lens there is less DOF. At the same time, use of an extension tube does cause reduction in the effective aperture size, causing some increase over DOF comparatively. But the net effect of both toghether (reduction and increase of DOF) is still very very shallow DOF in macro work.
The OP wants to get a 'telextender', not an 'extension tube'.