I'd suggest get the 18-55 kit lens, and save for a dedicated macro lens - the EF 100mm macro would be my personal favourite.
I might be wrong but I don't think EF-S lenses fit a 10D ?? so the 60mm macro and also the Sigma 70mm are out.
The kit lens takes a lot of poor-mouthing but it really isn't that bad, and is a good alround sure-enough EF lens for people on a budget. I still use mine when I need a lens that is light and small/ discrete. Or expendable...
Most people get a basic zoom , like the kit lens, then a medium tele zoom in the 70/75-300mm range when starting out, then a macro. I'd suggest a flash unit as well.
I get the impression you can borrow nice lenses from your parents - what stuff do you have access to, and how often? This could influence your decisions on what to get.
But ultimately, I'm afraid your budget means you need to stick with the basics - they perform well enough, and you'll enjoy using them while you save up though.