After reading incendy's thread about ST-E2 mixed with strobes, which shows the trick about taping the 4 contacts, that got me thinking and did an experiment with my 2 speedlites.
My 580 was set as master in M mode, 430 as slave in ETTL. I taped up the first 4 contacts on the off shoe cord, and did some test shots with my 20D. Sure enough, no more preflashes. Also I found out I still could control the flash outputs from the 580, and the opitical slaves were all synced up with the speedlites too. Test shots attached below.
I would like to use my 430 as hair light on a boom, controls its power from the 580, and try to loose the off shoe cord to go wireless. I will be metering each flash manually. My couple questions are:
1)Taping up the 4 contacts means the camera sends the sync signal to fire the flash only?
2) Will a Ebay wireless trigger do the same as I tape up the off shoe cord contacts?
Thanks.

