I was at ISO3200 and yes the lens was wide open (f/4) As for how far away I was, I don't know, I forgot my tape measure.
but I was on the sidelines.What noise software do you use? That shot is very good, well exposed and sharp! ISO3200 will give great results if you expose right and clean it with with Neat Image or Noise Ninja or the like...
To the OP, the brightness difference is pretty much evident from what the cow posted but you also have to ask yourself if you want the extra "artistic" fluff that 2.8 will give you...

