I bought a book called Petersen's Big Book of photography that was specifically for my first slr, an Olympus OM-1. I believe that was in '77 or '78.
That book was invaluable. Additionally, years of experience appying its principles have helped a lot.
Now that I'm shooting digital, the books I buy are for expanding my knowledge of post-processing in photoshop.
Anything else I need to know is usually found fairly quickly doing an internet search.
Don't be afraid to experiment. If you read a magazine that has a photo in it you like and the photographer tells you how they managed to take that shot, try the method and see what you can do with it. Eventually you will have an idea how to setup everything that comes to mind.
I also read the forums for information that doesn't come in the manuals.