so is this a support group or a place where we go to admit decadence and eat chocolates whilst we revel in aforementioned d.?
Now see, that's what I'm looking for- a place where we can support each other and enjoy our deviance without guilt. Wonder if I can find my post in the TPBM thread where we were talking about this?
We should learn to deal with our addiction the best we can. You know, be honest, admit it, talk about it & help with making things easier. 



