I can definately help you out here if you'd like. I'm rather new to this particular forum and not sure how to post pics, but if you give me your email I could put something more specific together for you. That aside though, it really comes down to what you plan on shooting. Image quality is hands down better with the 5D IMO, but if you need speed (FPS), more versitile and accurate AF (which I love btw), weather resistance, etc the 2N is the way to go. If you are more into landscapes, candid people, wedding's and such the 5D was made for you. I can't stress that enough, the features of these cameras are the differentiators, not the actual picture quality.
Also, what size prints are you having in mind? IMO, at about 8x10 or 8x12 seems to be the size where the 5D noticibly resolve more fine detail. Smaller than that and nobody will ever notice the difference, IQ wise or noise wise.