chander wrote in post #2386476
I think whether one should critique on smones post is his own will - whether he provides some useful information or just admires the pic...The base line is that we are part of a FORUM...a
PUBLIC place where people can share their stuff...and if u dont want any comments u should mention it (well I do have seen such posts - personally i think that kills the whole idea of being in a forum)...U cant (and i think shouldn't) stop anyone for commenting in any way...How they should do it a different topic and their own to decide....
U r right at pointing out the
disease but its better to work for a
cure and even that wont work till the patient wants it and is willing to accept it...What i mean is that one should ask for
CC and accept whatever he gets in return and learn from it.
First of all I will say that I am myself a newbie...A person who joined the forum couple of years back when I came across it and saw what a wonderful art photography was...Spent a lot of time reading posts and understanding various aspects...but still I made a
mistake and a big one...I had the wrong
Approach when I posted my first pics an year after joining the forum...
Dimitri might not be remebering but I too did something of the same sort of blunder mentioned above

...At that time i considered photography as just clicking pictures and getting appreciation...But now I am not ashamed to admit that I made a mistake

coz I have moved on from that phase...I have been learning a lot from a lot of experienced and nice people and photography is smthing thats helped me understand myself better...
Wat I am trying to say is that do what u are here to do ---
learn & share...The casual ones might fall out themselves or understant the true meaning - like I did...
The above words are
110% True....u will learn if you want to... no one can make u learn...and there are different levels of intrest in which people take to photography...some just want u to see what they saw and some want u to feel what they felt when they shot and much more sometmes...

...And every person has got limitations and the possibilities are enormous in photography...
The best way is ask questions about ur pics; about other people's pics ...
QUESTIONS (a mere 9 letter word) is the key to transform urself into smthing completely different....
And my friend Dan, u mentioned the word
Decorum...I think there are some other more serious things that come under this topic and that should be taken care of...Well, as an example i will say, I saw a post some days back from a guy who had purchased a
Rebel XTI from Dell and it was damaged on delivery. So he contacted Dell and talked to the manger(a
Indian Girl). She apologised for the inconvinience and gave him heavy disconts and a propmt service. Its a long story and in the end the guy had a free upgrade to
30D afterpaying just
$482
in all, all coz of the Dell manager who willing helped him. Still that guys makes fun of her coz of her being an
Indian and having a different
accent and then some other pple follow in the same way. That hurt me a lot coz I too am myself from
India and firmly beleive in the equality of people.
Shouldn't smone have stoped him? Decorum should have been maintained at that time! So what shud have I done...replied back with harsh words? Wud that have helped in any way? No !!! Coz it doesn't change anything ...I know there are a lot of gr8 people out here who don't discriminate based on caste, creed and nationality. They help u when u want it and as purely as possible...
I think I have said more than what I should have but its just because I firmly believe in this forum and its ethics
and I trust that any serious person's post wont go unnoticed !!! 