Agreed - it's very disruptive.... but then it's his place, not mine nor that of the guests. I just want to make sure I'm welcome the next time I return.
Regarding the ring shot, if flash is permitted I'm usually reasonably close by getting a series of shots, trying to keep low to block as few guests as possible. If flash is not permitted, I'm at my second camera which is usually tripod mounted, back center of the church, or off to the side, covering the entire ceremony. A lot of times I'll be sharing space with the videographer.
As for the "first kiss", to me that marks the end of the ceremony (which it does in about 98% of them) and I will flash along with about everybody else.
I have never had a problem from the B&G regarding photography restrictions, and it's something we will know about in advance prior to to the start of the ceremony. In my contract, I ask if there are photography restrictions. This is followed up by the statement: The PHOTOGRAPHER cannot be responsible for errors in instructions provided by the wedding party, for church or synagogue restrictions regarding photography..... ", etc. In this way there are no surprises and all are accountable.
ryleung wrote in post #2495628
Whoa... halting the ceremony to ask guests to stop flashing? I dunno who is more disruptive and disrespectful to the married couple here.
For the sake of discussion, here is a question for you, sapearl: As the official photographer, if you can't pull off that first kiss or ring picture without flashing, are you going to toss aside the fact that you've been hired by the marrying couple to deliver these shots, and listen to the priest to keep the flash off?