Hi. Thanks for taking time to read this.
I am working right now with just my main and fill light. (Once I get that right, I have a background and hair light to work with). I have two strobes (Alien Bees) with two medium softboxes. I am using my meter- a sekonic l308, but something seems to be very wrong.
All my photos seem to have a very "passport photo" look. Very bright- too bright- with every blemish obvious and highlighted. NOT too good. And the histograms on my digital camera all show the same thing- one high peak on the left side and barely anything else.
Here's what I'm doing. I'm positioning my main about 45 degrees and 3-4 feet from my subject. I keep varying the height between the subject's height and about a foot higher, trying to get better results. I have a softbox on the light. I use my meter to get a reading of about f5.6.
I place my fill next to the camera, at about camera height. I meter that too, until I get a reading of about f2.8.
Then I meter both to get the camera reading- it seems to be about f5.6 usually.
Then I take the picture and... Nogood! Really unpleasant shots-
I'll try to describe it - the lighting from the main seems to be too harsh, too bright - making every wrinkle and blemish noticeable instead of softening them.
Obviously I'm doing something wrong, but what?
Any assistance would be most greatly appreciated. Thank you.


