Actually, I tell people that my DSLR is harder to use for snapshots than their P&S, but that if I'm willing to work at it I can get better results in most situations.
If they are actually interested (vs. yanking my chain) I can elaborate on limited DOF, isolating subjects and low light abilities.
My Mom wants a new camera, and I'm steering her towards an S3 IS or the Sony H5. She has owned 35mm SLR in the past (including manual gear in the 70's) and I know she is not really willing to work with the hassles now. A nice 12X zoom, usable ISO 400 and something not too big, heavy and expensive is right for her at this point. There is nothing wrong with P&S digital cameras for some folks.
On the other hand......I went back and looked at a lot of shots I took with my 35mm Canon P&S in the 90's and they are pretty good. Better than what I get with my 5MP Fujifilm P&S in fact.

