...why I could set my QFT4d on auto with my 645AFD and it gives me great pictures (film). ...DIDN'T HAVE TO DO...COMPENSATING WITH...FILM CAMERAS AT ALL.
Uhh, let's take a shot with my opinions shall we...
1. Because 400 ISO negative film has a 1+ stop latitude in developing at the lab and making prints while digital exposure is similar to slides. There is only 1/3 - at most 1/2 - stop tolerance latitude for successfully exposing with slides and digital being able to make good prints. Like slides, digital is unforgiving and intolerant. Think Astia/Provia, not Portra in terms of exposure tolerance. Digital ain't like shooting negative film. The lab did the compensating for you.
2. Becuause old Auto flash was not fooled much by subject tone reflectance and metered fill flash is fooled by reflectance. On Auto, once we got distance and f/stop nailed at an event, we bang away with confidence, changing f/stop as we change flash distance to subject. With matrix meters (film and digital), metering HAS to send out a low power pre-exposure metering flash. Flash is being metered separate from the ambient exposure. But just like camera ambient metering, this flash metering is affected by tonal reflectance from subjects. White dresses, table cloths, etc, lead to under exposure without FEC. That's why "event" Canon Flash users learn to lean on FEC bigtime, just as we use EC on auto exposure cameras.
3. Because QFlash is a better flash system for event work.
...for me to get those same great pictures at a wedding I need to shoot...look at the historgram and decide whether the exposure is ok. If not retake the shot. Sounds like a lot of wasted time that I usually don't have at a wedding.
The histogram IS a great and wonderful exposure feedback and learning tool on the fly. Truly "the 21st Century light meter." It doesn't slow you down. Having the histogram, along with changing ISO on the fly, and RAW, are conveniences that help kill film quicker for people like us.
I just think you're vexed by No. 1 and No. 2 above; lack of exposure tolerance in digital and Auto vs. metered flash.
Jack