I do agree that we'll probably not see eye to eye on this, nor should we. Both approaches work well, both are widely taught, and one doesn't preclude the other.
You are also right that you can't determine a light ratio on an LCD. Nor can you determine the light ratio from an image or print. But one doesn't need to either, and thats my whole point.
Lighting ratios are a measurement system used to convey lighting intensities, and thus lighting setups so that they can be understood verbally among people. Much like Kelvin values are used to describe the color of light. As photographers we all know what warm afternoon sunlight looks like. But only through Kelvin values can we precisely and accurately describe the same exact light to each other. Yet, even without knowing the actual Kelvin temperatures, photographer day in and day out recreate that lighting with gels and strobes. They do it visually, and not numerically.
So if a photographer doesn't need to verbalize that light quality to another person, they don't need to understand Kelvin values at all. All they need is to reference their visual interpretation of the light, and with a few minutes of experimentation with the appropriate gels, presto, late afternoon sun.
The ratio of a shadow to the highlight isn't important, as long as the photographer knows how to adjust the strobe to achieve that effect that they are holding in their minds visually. If they want deep shadows, its well within any photographers capabilities to use the slider on strobe to remove lighting from the side they wish to create shadows on, and check it visually. They won't be able to describe it as a specific ratio, but they can easily match it their pre-visualization just as one can determine if a glass is half full visually without a unit of measure, and recreate it visually as well.
Some people learn better visually, and others learn better with formulas and setups. Eventually they will learn both, but the order is best determined by the individual photographer.
But to say one can't learn to light, and do it creatively without learning ratios is shortchanging a lot of very good photographers out there.