a friend at school gave me a flash to see if it works on my camera (rebel xt), it did work in auto mode but i dont know how to work it in manual. ive have no knowledge of flashes this is my 1st one if i can use it on my camera. i noticed that the connection on my camera has like 5 spots on it where it seems something should be connecting to it, on the flash there is only one which matches up with the biggest spot on the camera, im wondering if it is cause nothing is touching the 4 other spots that maybe this flash is not for this camera. can anyone help. also the pic i took in auto mode was real bright how to you control it.

