Any DOF calculator will give you the answer.
Example: 1.6x camera, 50mm lens, f/2.8, 8 ft. distance.
Field of view 3.6 x 2.4 feet.
Near DOF 4.6 inches
Far DOF 5.0 inches
200mm lens, f/2.8, 32 ft. distance.
Field of view 3.6 x 2.4 feet.
Near DOF 4.8 inches
Far DOF 4.9 inches
Rowdyred had the best answer. When you change focal length, then change the subject distance to get the same field of view, the DOF remains similar (generally).
Choose your subject distance to get the perspective you want.
Choose your focal length to get the field of view you want.
Then, choose your aperture to get the DOF you want.