Life changing decisison !

i need some advice on what could be a life changing decision for me

see ive been living with this chick for a while right. i think shes cheatin on me. sometimes the phone will ring and i pick it up and they hang up wtf. shes always goin out and says shes goin with the girls and i ask what girls and shes like oh you dont know them there from work and im like wtf you dont even have a job. sometimes she comes home in a taxi but it drops her off way down the street and she walks a few blocks home and she says its for exercize. the other day i picked up her mobile phone to see what time it was because i dont have a watch and she started goin total pms on me and said to never touch her phone again n shi..

well i dont wanna just come out and call her a ***cen crazy cheatin ***** or nothin because i could be wrong, but last night she was goin out again and i like crept outside and was hidin behind my car to see who was pickin her up coz the drive ways is on a hill and i can see pretty much the whole street. and whiles i was crouched down behind my car i noticed there was some paint peelin off my bumper

so should i take it to a body shop or could i go to a local car store and get some stuff to do it myself?

Do it yourself - more satisfaction and it's cheaper...

Dandaman_24 wrote in post #3297654
i need some advice on what could be a life changing decision for me

i could be wrong, but last night she was goin out again and i like crept outside and was hidin behind my car to see who was pickin her up coz the drive ways is on a hill and i can see pretty much the whole street. and whiles i was crouched down behind my car i noticed there was some paint peelin off my bumper

so should i take it to a body shop or could i go to a local car store and get some stuff to do it myself?

Holy freak man! Step one, breath. Step two, put down the pipe. I remember 24. Here's some advice. Nothing you decide is "forever", not really. At the outmost, 5 years. Choose what's best for you now, keep you in the green zone. She sounds like a flake and you're literally bat shyat insane. Cite: above quote. Good luck straightening your head out with this. In a year you'll be laughing.

get the stuff on your own and make your girl fix it while you go out

You had me going until that last line.

Nice one Dandaman.

Eat more fruit and vegetables. It's good for you. hope that helps man

Paint peeling off your bumper? All the cars I know have PVC bumpers or chromed bumpers. No paint.

As for girls - so what. Brush 'em off. They're not worth bothering about being serious with until you're both in your 30s.

rhys wrote in post #3297788
As for girls - so what. Brush 'em off. They're not worth bothering about being serious with until you're both in your 30s.

Is that age, inner leg measurement or IQ?

condyk wrote in post #3298018
Is that age, inner leg measurement or IQ?

Age dear boy, age. Most people that marry in their 20s are divorced by their 30s. Most people that arry in their 30s stay married for life.

rhys wrote in post #3298375
Age dear boy, age. Most people that marry in their 20s are divorced by their 30s. Most people that arry in their 30s stay married for life.

aint dat da trute!!!

married @ 26... Divorced @ 36 remarried @ 38 and happier for it..

as for the OP's question? idunno... do you know how to paint?

So sorry to hear about that... Everything else you can live with, but paint peeling off your bumper is rough!

Take off the bumper and bolt on a wooden plank, it’s cheaper than painting. At least that’s what I did for my old shaggin’ wagon.

TheGreatOg wrote in post #3297720
Holy freak man! Step one, breath. Step two, put down the pipe. I remember 24. Here's some advice. Nothing you decide is "forever", not really. At the outmost, 5 years. Choose what's best for you now, keep you in the green zone. She sounds like a flake and you're literally bat shyat insane. Cite: above quote. Good luck straightening your head out with this. In a year you'll be laughing.

Somebody got caught

Do it yourself, much more fun and you'll learn something.

BTW to all you guys saying not to get married in your 20's as it does not last.
:p Married at 20 and we are celebrating 30 yrs in July

JAZZ D.P.G. wrote in post #3298537
Somebody got caught

Not me, not yet. It'd take an evil genius to tame me. That doesn't mean men haven't tried. Or did you mean the OP? He's still got time to run like hell.