Can someone explain to me in "stupid" terms how to use a gray card?
Do I have the person hold the card while taking the shot? Or do I fill my frame with the card in that light (have the person hold the card and shoot it from there?
Also to get the correct lighting as well I should aim at the card to get the correct exposure?
Sorry I know these are elementary questions, but it has always confused me. Usually I just use AWB, but I want to learn more about this.
Your manual should give the proper procedure for setting a Custom White Balance with your specific camera. Generally you have the whole center exposure circle within the area of the gray card, whether someone's holding it or it's propped up on something, then use a menu item to set that pic as your Custom White Balance reference, then you set the camera to custom white balance depending on which control your manual says to use.
You could use a medium gray card to set exposure, sure, why not
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