I dont think you should use the histogram as an absolute judge on whether your shot is good or not. I think it can be useful in terms of reviewing your overall exposure, but its not the be-all and end-all of whether a photo is good or not.
I think personally, that its useful in the context of a quick guage on whether you have exposed reasonably well on the photo ... as in ... is all the curve waaay to the left ( underexposed perhaps ) or waaaay to the right ( possibly over-exposed ) .... with emphasis on perhaps/possibly. .... but to me, thats all. I certainly wouldn't be looking to acheive a perfect bell curve by any means.
I'll take a shot, maybe glance at the histogram and see whether the bulk of the curve is in the middle and not at the edges, and if is OK i'll move on. If the curve is to the far left / right, i'll then factor that in against the actuall composition .... maybe i do want it to be dark or light ... and the histogram will confirm that.
So i wouldn't worry about it too much. Keep taking the shots, look at your shots later and where its gone obviously wrong in the photo, see if you can see that in the histograms. then from there you'll learn that if the histrogram is showing a particular shape, when you didn't really want it to, you can try and address that at the time of taking the shot.
but certainly dont worry about " oh no the curve aint bell shaped " .... just keep taking photos and have fun.




