bkw wrote in post #4684715
Thanks guys! I'm trying to use as little of the flash as possible as to keep the aperture as large as I can. I feel the 'bokeh' gives these candids a dreamy feel to them.
Agree completely... I tend to push to 1/250" for most of my flash pictures, but lately I've been paying attention to the background too. Especially if it's dark, that fast really makes it almost a black background.
bkw wrote in post #4684715
Exif for #1:
Camera: Canon EOS 5D
Exposure: 0.008 sec (1/125)
Aperture: f/2.8 (thus the shallow DOF)
Focal Length: 115 mm
ISO Speed: 500
Flash set to manual - 14mm 1/32
Makes sense. I usually do the same, but 1/3 or 2/3 aperture closure would have just brought the rest in... of course, you never know this until you're doing PP. 
bkw wrote in post #4684715
Exif for #2:
Camera: Canon EOS 5D
Exposure: 0.008 sec (1/125)
Aperture: f/4
Focal Length: 280 mm (70-200 + 1.4x TC)
ISO Speed: 500
Flash set to manual - 14mm 1/64
Wow. 280mm with flash at 1/125? 
She's got such beautifully black hair - would just have loved to see a lighter background on that second one!
Just don't make me vote which one I like more - I love them both!