Gurry wrote in post #5147968
a plan old white index card? ive never seen this done before.
It's extremely common and works extremely well. Better than that fong crap or diffusers which really do very little except lose you light.
I'm in Ontario too, and I have to tell you Gurry, the wedding photography market is VERY competitive. I realise you know the bride, but I must say, LISTEN to the likes of tim, sapearl, cdifoto and DocFrankenstein. They know their stuff.
If you mess up 1 wedding, and I realise you know the bride, but still, your reputation and chances of being a professional photographer could be ruined forever.
I hate to say it but after reading this threads, do you not know anybody in your area who has more experience and knowledge in photography who could do the wedding instead? Nothing personal against you, but I must echo the sentiment that you either need to listen to the good advice given, and learn VERY quickly, or risk ruining the photos of her special day, and at the same time tarnishing a reputation.