I read several other threads, but no one asking was in exactly my boat, so I hope you don't mind another lens ? from a newbie!
I have the XTi and the kit 18-55mm lens. I also have the Canon 75-300mm lens from my parent's film rebel that they passed on to me, I'm not sure if it is inferior b/c it is from film, but it's worked okay so far.
For most general photography (I'm usually shooting active toddlers and younger children, indoor and outdoor) I want something with more reach than the 18-55 but need closer up than the 75-300. I'd like something with the smallest f/stop, preferably, because I like using shallow depths of field.
What lens would you recommend for my needs? I'd like to spend anywhere up to about $700 (if necessary) and I'm not opposed to buying secondhand if it is in great shape. Putting all my cards on the table, I have about $1300 saved up, but need/want to buy the 580EX flash and a good monopod for sports photography. One day I want to get a wide angle lens,but it is below my flash and other lens priorities.
Any thoughts or suggestions greatly appreciated! I normally hand hold (tripods can't keep up with my kids
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