Scottes - you considered down towards Providence? Winters seem milder south of the Cape and, while you may be further away from Plum Island, you're closer to Block Island.
I wish I was back in New England!
That's why I don't mind the winter. It's not so bad as "up north" yet we do get some cold weather and some snow, just not a huge degree of either ... just enough! (then again, ask me about March ...
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I live just south of the middle of R.I. and I'm a couple minutes from the bay, 20 minute to Newport, 20 minutes to Providence, a little better than 2 hours to the NH mountains, a little better than 2 hours from New York (if I ever want to go there ...
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My favorite is being around the water and Narragansett bay ... the lighthouses, sailboats, beaches ... yet I live in the country even though I'm only minutes from the shore.
I know - my father's from Cranston, so we spent vacations either in Meshanticut Park or around the cousins on Charlestown Pond. Then grad school at URI (lived on Ten Rod Road for one year, Wakefield the other 3). Gotta find some way to convince Ann that it's better than the South. She's got this strange thing about "cold"?
Scottes - think about the Blue Ridge and Appalachians of NC. Highest mountains in the East. Techie opportunities in the Piedmont at Charlotte, Winston-Salem, or the Research Triangle. Bit of a commute (4 hr. from RDU to the Blue Ridge; little over an hour from Winston-Salem).

