Artur Gajewski wrote:Thanks for your reply.
I just wanted to know how pros do it

I do always try and learn, but it seems the pros just go there and know how to do it all in a matter of seconds.
When I watch the TV news, I don't see much of the photographers playing around with settings when the target is moving etc, so I thought perhaps there would be a general way of doing flash photography.
I am interested in portrait photography myself, as I want to shoot my kids. I have tried bounced, straight, diffusers, FEC, and as you said it all differs and it is nice to experiment.
Couple of pointers:
The Pro's are pros because of skill and experience, and did I say experience. It takes time to master your equipment. I got my 300D + 550EX in May... I couldn't get the darn thing to give me a decent flash shot until last week, where I experimented with over 200+ shots with diff settings, ISO, FEC, EC, Aperture, etc... then I realized the 300D+550EX consistently needs an FEC of anywhere between 1/3 to 1 to give DECENT shots.
Compare this to my Minolta 35mm and Vivitar flash, where it was almost point-and-shoot, because somehow the metering was PERFECT. So even though they're both SLR's they behave differently...
I also agree that the best way in an unknown situation is to use a bounce as it will give you more of a natural lighting instead of the harsh light of a direct flash...
So play around with the equipment, try it under different lighting conditions, settings, etc. That way you get a feel for what's right and what meets your needs.
Secondly, one thing I read on a thread somewhere here, and something I follow in my profession (which has nothing to do with photography) is the KISS (Keep it simple, stupid) principle... i.e. if your camera has an automated setting that gets you the results that you are looking for then use it as much as possible. Don't try to be cool with the "I'm Tarzan, I always shoot in manual" mentality 
Play around with the camera, have fun, and you'll get some amazing shots.
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