I know this may not be exactly wedding and other family events, but I thought I'd post it here because it's where the wedding pro's hang out
Long post though! Beware 
Anyway, as I mentioned in another thread, I have been mailing local photographers for a good while, asking for a chance to assist them on shoots, go to anything as a second shooter, drag around gear bags, whatever, I just wanted to be on the field.
Eventually, I contacted a guy with a shop, he did mostly weddings, an area I had never imagined doing, but that's where he needed some help, so that's what I agreed to do. Also, he and the people who work there with him have invited me over, just to hang out and watch them doing stuff on photoshop, like wedding albums, etc, so I asked " anything for me to do ? " they said, sure, go ahead, and I started processing wedding pictures ( raw's ) and after that they told me I could design a wedding album. Ok, now I've gone with him to 2 weddings, an after wedding session, and spent at least 15 hours working on wedding pictures/album for a couple in his studio. I guess I could divide my question in two parts, one part is the in-office work, and the other is the field work.
Office work: I enjoy working with photoshop, processing and retouching photos, but I'm not exactly learning anything there ( altough I'm sure he thinks I am, even though I've helped other employees with pp a few times ) and sometimes it can get boring, because the pictures are not for me to use, so I really need to process them all, even the ones I'd just skip or delete, that's they're workflow, and there are hundreds, if not over 1000 photos for a certain couple, because sometimes there's something like an engagement session, wedding day with usually 2 photographers, and a shoot after the wedding day. I'm 19, and I'm studying in the morning and doing this many after-noons now, if that's important.
Field work ( weddings ): I've gone to 2 so far, had fun and really enjoyed it, I went as a second photographer on the first and as a third on the second. I don't know how it's done in the U.S.A, but he does it like this:
around 8 a.m, groom's house, pictures of the clothes, small details, etc, groom getting dressed, parents helping groom, a few "formals" of the groom with close family that's on the house. Then, bride's house, same thing, including group pictures of however many people are there at the moment. Photos of bride getting in the car, empty church shots, ceremony shots, couple coming out. Reception: every guest takes a picture with the couple, just line them up and shoot, the second wedding had almost 200 people, so this alone took well over 30 minutes with 2 photographers. Then he takes the couple around the garden or something while the other ones get shots of the room, to get some shots of the bride and groom doing the same stuff they did in the session before they married, you know " you kiss him, you kiss her, you run, he runs " . Then, he rushes to the lab and prints proofs of all the pictures he's taken so far, except the ones that the guests aren't interested in, like small details, church shots, etc, which he makes everyone shoot in raw because he tells the lab to print the jpgs from the cards. Meanwhile the guests have lunch, second photographer and camera man stay there, have lunch, capture anything of interest. He comes back hours later with hundreds of proofs, sets them up, and the guests gather around and buy the ones they like, and they buy quite a bit. After this, we get some shots of the guests dancing, the cake, and it's over.
What I don't like here, he is very stubborn, everything has to be this way, I've suggested small changes like, printing proofs on the spot a bit later so people could see or buy shots of them dancing and stuff like that, nothing. I also dislike that the shots he wants and gets are very repetitive, as he uses the same techs and shoots the same things over and over again. I also dislike the fact that he is very proof selling oriented, he wants shots that will sell then and there, and that ticks me off, even though I get it's business, I think there's too much focus on it, and I think that if I get good ceremony or candid shots but no decent " standard " group shots that sell, he would be annoyed. Just an example, while he was shooting the group shots, I was trying to get candids. I got a cool ( imo ) shot of the bride's sister laughing, great pose, spontaneous, she had no idea I had shot her, but in trying to get it in time, I chopped off a bit of her hands. Later, I got a very boring shot with two women looking somewhere, blank expressions. When he reviewed the pictures he said the second one was better, he said it was a picture that would sell because it's a tight shot of the two ladies, and that the other one has too much empty space behind her and her hands are cut, he said no one would buy the former. I strongly disagree, and even if she didn't buy it because of the hands issue, which I doubt, it is a much stronger image for an album or something, there was clear emotion, pleasing subject, rule of thirds. Well, you get the idea. What I also very much dislike is that he makes all photographers use his cards and give them to him at the end of the day, so I can't keep my pictures, not even for personal uses, portfolio, nothing, he says the couple doesn't allow it, but I'm sure they wouldn't mind that much if I kept the shots I took. This is the bad, having him want repetitive yet surely good selling photos over interesting or less common photos that may not sell as well on the spot. The good, it's fun, obviously, but I'm not exactly learning too much from him as I'm learning from experience that I wouldn't get otherwise. Also, they have been very nice to me, making an effort to teach me and make feel welcome around there, unlike 80% of other photographers that don't even reply to e-mails. They're final work is nice, quality prints of course, and they get lots of clients, I just think it can get kind of repetitive. By the way, I got paid 20€ on the second wedding because he said he'd use some of the photos ( not sure if they were proofs or album, I guess they were proofs ), all the while using my own equipment and getting 0 photos to show for it.
They have a massive delay in album deliveries, months and months, actually. I was thinking of finishing the album, and asking them if they want help in a more professional way, as in a part time job. Like I said, I like doing that, but I'm not doing work that they'd be doing if I wasn't there, for free, and learning nothing, that's just free employees for him. On the other hand, that may not go well with him, and just cut me off the whole thing. The weddings, I like doing them, but I don't like the rules he imposes nor not getting pictures, so what would you do ? Keep going, trying to do what he wants while learning from experience, having fun, getting paid ( very litlle ) and most likely not getting shots for yourself or just stop going to both weddings and office and try to get a photographer that has a different style ? Sorry for the long read guys, I kinda had to vent, lol 


