I've had the monitor for about 3 weeks and the Spyder for about 1. I spent several days trying different combinations of settings before getting a calibration that looked good to me. I thought I would share what I discovered for anyone else with this set of equipment.
First, you have to use the RGB sliders option. Without that I consistently got pinkish screen tones.
Second, setting the brightness and contrast gave me a more comfortable screen. I ended up using a contrast of 90 and a brightness of 5. Some may think that brightness sounds drastic but this monitor is very bright. At the factory setting of 50 the Spyder measures a luminence of 320 cd/m2. At 15 brightness I got 220 cd/m2 and at 5 I got 170 cd/m2. I've read that even that is considered too bright but setting it at zero gave dull colors to my eyes.
Third, even after setting the white balance to 6500k I was still getting pinkish tinged grays. These were especially noticeable in windows and Word menu boxes. After lots of experimenting I found that once you have set the RGB sliders to get 6500k you have to look at the Visual Guide box in the Spyder. It's a series of black to gray to white boxes. Even at 6500k you might see pinkish grays. Just select the Red slider and decrease it until the guide box grays look gray and not pink toned. You may think this will throw off the white balance but I found that the R slider is very insensitive. I was at a difference measurement of .02 and a white balance of 6520k but grays were pink. I changed the R slider from 100 to 88 and the difference only changed to .03 and white balance to 6525k.
I now have a good looking screen that doesn't sear my eyeballs with intensity and shows great colors, not too saturated, not too dull.

