Hey Rex,
A few pointers,
1. Salesmenship starts when the customer says no. A little coercing is OK, but don't get pushy.
2. Many folks say that they do not like the way they look in pictures, that is a negative, I used to agree with them. And then be self effacing, but getthem to understand that they are not going to get any better looking!!
3. Never be afraid to use the distant relative or family card. " Yes Mrs Jones I understand that you don't really like the way you look. But I think we captured you exactly as you are and distant generations will want to know how you looked during your life."
4. A portrait is a true representation of a small amount of time in your life.
5. Never be mean to the customer when mentioning flaws in their look. No matter how easy it is. You never know who is listening.
6. To up your sales plan the poses around wall placement and desk placement of each member of the family. Make sure that you turn negatives about their look to your advantage. For example wrinkles. When they say Don't shoot the wrinkles - be bold enough to ask - didn't you earn each one?
7. Learn to find beauty in each person that you shoot. Everyone no matter how ugly they really are deserves your best effort. Compliment what you can but only if you can be honest about it. You have nice eyes, hair or blouse will sound phoney if your don't beleive it yourself. Tell them that you going to do your best to make them look like a $$$$$$$ bux.
8 Each of those people will form an opinion of photographers in general by what happens when you are behind the camera - so make us look good.
9. Dress professionally above the dress code each shoot day - trust me it pays off.
10. Learn to whisper, and or talk in low tones - to everyone especially children. Give command reddily and without hesitation, but do so with quiet respect. People will strain to hear what you have to say.
11. Learn childs play like it was your second nature, each age group responds to different stimuli. Acting silly for a 4 year old will work, for a 10 year old he will think you have lost your marbles. But "dad has stinky feet still works for every age group"
When you stop having fun, get out.


